Well, Caleb has finally been given his official notice... he has until 10 PM on Sunday, June 29th to come on his own, or he will be evicted from the womb. We knew that, because of my Gestational Diabetes, early induction was likely, but now it's on the calendar! My doctor prefers to schedule an induction approximately a week before the due date, so that means that Caleb's most likely birthday will be June 30th. Of course, there's always the remote possibility that he could come on his own before then, but I'm not holding my breath or getting too excited.
We went for an ultrasound last Tuesday, and Caleb's approximate weight was just over 6 1/2 lbs., which is absolutely perfect and on target for his gestational age. So, that means that I've been a good little Gestational Diabetic and kept everything under control (benefits to my obsessive-compulsive personality). The biggest concern with GD is that the babies tend to get big before they're done baking, which makes for huge children whose bodies aren't completely formed. I hit the 37-week mark on Saturday, which means that I am full term, and realistically, Caleb could come anytime. I am hoping, however, that he at least has the decency to wait until after my last day of work (tomorrow, the 17th) and maybe even give me a few days to chill. I know, though, that I have absolutely no control or say in the matter. He'll do what he wants. Stubborn thing.
So, what's left? I have an appointment Wednesday with the midwife @ my OB's practice, and will have another Non-Stress Test (basically, they hook me up to a monitor and watch his heart rate for 20 minutes). Then, I go back the following Friday (27th) for an appointment with my doc's associate (who I really like) and yet another NST. And then, Sunday night, the 29th, we'll head toward Calebration (yeah, yeah.. I know it's Celebration, but I keep telling him it's CALEBration..heehee) Hospital and sometime within the next 24 or so hours, our little man will arrive!
Walt and I still need to iron out our wishes as far as visitors, etc. are concerned. I've come to realize through this pregnancy process that I really am a very private person. I know that I will be very vulnerable and really have no idea what to expect from myself during labor. Because I'm being induced, the process will likely be a lot harder on me than if I were to go into labor naturally... this means that an epidural is fairly likely. Part of me would like to have a natural birth, but I know my limits, and I'd rather be comfortable and able to relax. I don't know, honestly, if I'll be up for visitors during labor. From what I've heard, it's a long, drawn-out process and I might actually enjoy the company.. but I don't know. After he's born, I know that Walt and I will have some bonding time with Caleb before we welcome any visitors in the room. I know that there will be people in the waiting room (which makes me anxious, really, knowing that they're waiting on me), but everyone will have to wait for a while. Hopefully, someone (doctor, nurses?) will be able to let everyone know when he's here... but like I said, it will be a while before the green light is given. First in, of course, will be immediate family... our parents and my sister. Then, depending on time and how we're feeling, we may let a few more people in the room. But, I'm really hoping no one gets offended if we don't do visitors the first day. Tuesday, however, I think we'll be a lot more open to people coming by to meet Caleb. Please remember, though, he will be rooming-in with us (all day and night), so there's a great possibility that we'll be exhausted and napping together as a family. My best advice would be to send a text message to one of us to see if we're up to having visitors?! And then, once we get home, we will probably need a few days to get used to a schedule, so call before coming by to make sure that the timing is good. Once we see what his schedule is going to be like, we might open up certain blocks of time for visitors, but even then, we'll likely want to limit the amount of time that people are there. From what I've read, overstimulation is not a good thing in the first few weeks, so we will have to be overprotective of him (yeah, as if that WASN'T happening anyway?). Oh, and a side note: I will absolutely be one of those paranoid Purell moms! We are not sticking to the standard vaccination schedule, so until his immune system is better-developed (around 4 months), he won't be passed around much, and anyone who holds him will be asked to wash or otherwise sanitize their hands first.
Bottom line... we can't wait to meet our little man! We know it'll be sooner than later.. within the next two weeks!! I'm excited, nervous, anxious, scared... but I am so in love with this kid, and I can't wait to have him in my arms!